Friday, December 16, 2005

Sunday


This last Sunday we attended church in village outside of town known as Tongeran. One of the four local church leaders for the Church of Christ is acting as an interim house parent (along with his wife) for us at the Children's Home. He wanted us to come see his village, his home and church. To the left is the footpath we drove down to get to his house! "Hakuna Sheeta": no problem! He had a very nice, newer home built of mud, of course. We took many of the children from the children's home with us, who enjoyed feasting on the sugar cane that grows on his farm. I also had my first sugar cane experience, which was very fun! There's a picture of me on Carrie's blog enjoying my treat, for those interested.

After we had our chai & scones at Johnstone & Elizabeth's house, we headed back down the footpath (in our truck, mind you) to go to church. Here's a picture of what going to church looks like here in Kenya. This church is a very nice church, for the village. In fact, the cornerstones of this church were layed by Milt & Barbie Jones, Sandy Roberts and Shawn Tyler last February! There were many visitors on this particular Sunday. We had about 5 different denominations represented. We think word spread that the wazungu (plural for mzungu)were going to be in attendence!

Worship, in the Churches of Christ at least, in Kenya typically involve a woman, sometimes a man, who leads off by standing and starting a song. Everyone joins her or him in clapping, but waits until she finished the first verse to join in. The congregation usually sings the chorus only; the leader sings the verses. Most of the songs are fast, but some are slow. Most of the time, people join her in standing. The woman standing in this picture is the afore mentioned Elizabeth. We have not caught on to many of the songs yet. They sing so fast, its hard to catch the words!

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Work


This pic is for you, Jim Nichols! *smile* I was interviewing a CRF sponsored child and her mother in this picture, updating her file. Which reminds me, I have been meaning to post about our work on here and keep spacing it!
We have been consumed with work at the Kenya Church of Christ Children's Home in Kitale. The situation at the home was much more bleak than we realized coming in, so we've been spending a lot of time fixing things up a bit. The main thing I've been involved with is re-structuring their financial system. I created a new way of keeping their books, since our team is currently acting as the administrator for the home. I wanted to create something simple that we will eventually be able to train a local person to take over and run the home with. If you know me very well, you know that math & finances have never been my strong suit, but it seems that God has suddenly given me the ability to understand what I need to be able to understand in order to do a job that involves finances, so I feel very blessed! Everything here works on cash basis, no credit or debit, which I've found to be a lot easier to work with. We've also been seeking out ways to farm the land at the Children's Home to cut some of the food costs. Carrie & Kelly have been the primary workers on that project, while Greg & I are focusing more on the business administration side of things. We have quickly learned that the more skills a missionary team has, the better. Missionaries have to know how to do all sorts of things! We have already encountered situations in which we needed to use skills like business, mechanic, medical, computer tech...the list goes on!
Our work in AIDS education is getting off to a slower start than we anticipated. The problem is more vast than we can even imagine; and there is no simple solution. We have discovered that our training needs to be more than just the basics. It needs to involve marriage and family training, general health education and basic life skills as well as address spiritual maturity issues. We don't want to re-invent the wheel OR put the cart before the horse, so please pray for us as we prayerfully decide each step we take toward fighting the AIDS pandemic.

Monday, December 12, 2005

More Kisumu Pics











James, Lauryn & their daughter, Sandra.













Lauryn's African home cookin'!



Kelly, Carrie & me on Lake Victoria.

Kisumu

Last week was filled with lots of traveling, great food, and good fun! We started out the week by attending church in the border town of Malaba, about 2 hours away from here. The Churches of Christ were having their annual national meeting, so we joined them for Sunday service and got to see our good friends, Shawn Tyler & Stephan Shelburn from Uganda. Shawn was the special speaker.
Monday morning we got up early to head down to Kisumu to visit our CRF works going on down there. TEN hours later we arrived in Kisumu, which was only supposed to be 2 ½ hours away! Yeah…we got a little lost, but we got to drive through some of the most beautiful country I have ever seen. Rolling hills of tea, dotted with little white houses for the tea workers. It was incredible. We decided to practice our P.M.A.’s that day… Positive Mental Attitudes instead of our “Where the heck are we?!” attitudes! :)
When we arrived much later than expected, we were still very welcomed by James & Lauryn (last name escapes me) and Jared O. James & Jared are leaders in the local churches in Kisumu and run the Christian Relief Fund programs there as well. They are very cool people! Lauryn, James’ wife made us an awesome meal of Fried Tilapia, Rice, Ugali, Sukuma, Beef, and onion & tomato salad.
Tuesday we spent time meeting with James and Jared about CRF finances and checkin’ out the CRF works, which are both going really well. We also got to “see” the equator! We ended the evening by enjoying delicious Chinese cuisine at “The Oriental Restaurant” (original, huh?!) in Kisumu.
Wednesday morning we got to meet a bunch of kids in the CRF program at a party that the CRF school threw for them. We also got to meet many of the teachers at the school. Northwest Church pays their salaries, so we were introduced to them as their “bosses”…I laughed in my head, wondering what they though about that! After the party we went on a “cruise” on Lake Victoria…the four of us, James & Lauryn, and 3 Africans in an old, small wooden boat with waves 2-3 feet high…I was a little freaked out! But it was all worth it when we saw Hippos swimmin’ around about 200 feet from our boat. For being one of the most dangerous animals in the world, they sure are cute! We also got to see King Fishers, and some other birds. Thursday morning we finished up some “big city” shopping and drove home…2 ½ hours later we arrived in Kitale!
But the traveling was not over for the week. Friday morning Kelly & Carrie spent the day down in Eldoret, about an hour away, learning more about farming goats and how to use a wood burning oven for the children’s home. Greg & I spent the day traveling around Kitale running errands, which included loading 10 large bags of maize into a Subaru Legacy wagon. The Kenyan Red Cross donates to the Children’s Home every year around Christmas. That was both a blessing and an adventure! On Saturday, Greg & I met with the parents at the home about how the budget for December was going, and then we ended up spending the rest of the day with the kids. I got to play volleyball and football (euro syle) with some of the girls, which was REALLY fun! These kids are so sweet. It was good bonding time for us. Then, we ate a really yummy traditional African meal that John, the cook at the Home prepared for us. Chicken in a special sauce, rice, chapatti (like thick wheat tortillas), ugali, potato soup, and onion & tomato salad. Oh, but the good food part isn’t over! Saturday night we went out to eat with some missionary friends at this awesome Chinese/Indian restaurant here in Kitale. We didn’t even know it was here, so we were pretty excited that we could get really good Chinese food in Kitale and not have to drive to Kisumu…even though we now know exactly how to get there! :)

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Words


Some of my first Swahili phrases, and why…

Habari!
This is the traditional Swahili greeting here in East Africa. It literally means “How are you?” Most Africans use this phrase more than “Jambo,” which means “Hello.” What we find really funny is that when an African greets us in English they almost always say “How are you?” instead of “Hello.” And when we greet an African in English, they usually answer “Fine,” even if we just say, “Hello!”

Nzuri
This is the typical reply to “Habari.” It is the same as saying “good,” or “fine.” I typically get it confused with “mzuri,” which I just learned means “beautiful.” Fortunately, mzuri is still an acceptable reply. It can also mean, "good."

Mungu Akubariki!
When we first arrived in Uganda, George & Diana Franklin of See Ministries had also just arrived for their annual trip into East Africa to do eye glass clinics. We helped them with many of their clinics and had a really great time witnessing with our own eyes the joy of people being able to see clearly for the first time. Many times as people were leaving they would say “God bless you” to us, but many people knew absolutely no English, so I asked Shawn how to say “God bless you” in Swahili. He wrote it down for me on a piece of paper: “Mungu (God) Akubariki.” I kept this on the table next to me until I had it memorized. It was neat to see their eyes light up for a second time as I spoke to them in their language instead of mine.

Sawa sawa
Africans say this ALL the time. We hear it in almost every conversation between them and with us, so much so that we have started using it, partly as a joke, but also because its fun to be able to integrate a little of the Swahili in with English. “Sawa sawa” literally means, “ok.” So there ya go! A little simple Swahili phrase you can also integrate into your conversations at home! (Pronounced: S-ah-wah s-ah-wah.)

Jina lako nani?
This phrase took me forever to master. My dyslexia kept trying to change the words to “Lina jako nani?” This is an important question, especially when working with kids. It means, “What is your name?” Greg has this question mastered from the first time he was here so I asked him over and over again how to say it until I finally got it. The kids usually smile shyly and answer with a muffled voice. Everyone here has a Biblical or Western first name, followed by their African surname. However, the surname is not given based on what family one is from, but according to which month one was born in. So usually brothers and sisters have totally different last names, which is really confusing!

Toka kwa lani yangu! Haraka, haraka!!
Upon arriving in Kitale, we were handed the key to a ’99 Toyota pick-up truck that is owned by the Children’s Home. Shawn wanted us to take it and use it as our own, as no one at the home has a driver’s license, anyway. This has been a huge blessing to us, especially since Greg & Kelly have been living at the Children’s Home until our compound becomes available to all four of us. Carrie and I drive the pick-up and the guys drive the Daihatsu. One day Carrie and I were down town running errands and upon coming out of a store we found one of the many street children who is constantly begging us for money (while sniffing glue at the same time) sitting in the back of our truck. We immediately started shaking our heads and saying, “No!” motioning for him to get out of the truck. He jumped out but as soon as we got in, he jumped back on to the bumper and gave us a challenging, yet glazed over stare. I jumped out of the cab and started yelling, “No sawa! (in an attempt to yell, not ok!) Off! Get off now!” I don’t know if he understood me or not, but he eventually got off and we were able to leave. The next day I told Boaz, our house worker what happened and I asked him how to say “Get off my truck!” in Swahili. He loves telling us new Swahili words. “Toka kwa lani yangu,” is what he told me to say. Smiling, he added, “haraka,” which means “hurry.” I have yet to use my newest Swahili phrase, which is probably a blessing, but a little disappointing and the same time. I would just love to see the face of the kid after I reprimanded him in his own language!

Monday, November 28, 2005

Home Sweet Home

This is the guest house on our compound. Carrie & I are living here now until the big house (below) is available for us to move into. We are all excited about the move. Carrie & I can't wait to settle down and Greg & Kelly can't wait to have a place of their own. They've been living at the Children's Home since we've been here. I think the kids have the better end of that deal! :)



This is the house Carrie & I will move into in January. It is a little big for two people, but we are looking forward to hosting many people here over the next 2 years. We have plenty of room for you to stay...all you need is a plane ticket!






This is the outside of our compound. Doesn't it look inviting?!

A Day in the Village

The caravan comprising of our blue ’84 Daihatsu and silver ’99 Toyota pick up truck rumbled out of the driveway of the Children’s Home in Kitale at about 9:15 am Sunday morning. We were on our way to Bugoma, a village about 60 kilometers from Kitale, for church. Church in the village is an experience that cannot be imitated anywhere.
After riding on dusty, pot-hole ridden dirt roads, listening to the only tap we have, the “WOW Gold Album,” for about two hours, we arrived at our destination.
The countryside we have just driven through is absolutely beautiful—almost indescribable. Rolling hills of farmland, dotted with tall, beautiful Acacia trees and other African greenery greeted us at every turn. Flowers of all sorts, in different shapes, sizes and colors beamed at us from the side of the road, as if welcoming us into their nook of the world. As we neared the village we had passed a field brimming with sunflowers that were on the verge of blooming into full force. It is nearing the end of November here in Africa, which means summer is just around the corner.
We pull into a yard that has a few mud buildings around the perimeter. The closest one to us is the church building, which, with its mud walls and sheet metal roof, we consider quite sophisticated for an African church. (Last week we met under a tarp made out of sewn-together rice bags, which did not hold up when the torrential rains came in the middle of the sermon!) As we unfolded ourselves from the trucks, we were met with broad smiles and warm hugs and hand shakes from many of the church members. “Welcome, welcome! I love you,” our first greeter exclaimed. This was the first time we had been welcomed with such outright veracity from a stranger. We soon learned her name, Christine, as she ushered us away from the church building toward another, which turned out to be her home. We sat down on hard, wooden furniture covered with embroidered pieces of fabric, kind of like doilies. After a short wait, Christine brought us mugs, cocoa mix, sugar, and hot milk, accompanied by bread and some traditional African sweet breads, known as mandazi. We made our own cocoa and munched on the breads. By this time, it was already after 11:00 am, and church hadn’t even started yet. We knew it would be a long time before lunch! Christine’s home was very nice for a village home. It was very large, about 800 square feet, with a few different rooms. The walls and floor were mud, and the ceiling was sheet metal, held up with beams made out of small trees. She had windows that closed with small wooden doors, and had managed to hang framed pictures of her family along the main wall of her living room. She had swatches of material that resembled valances hung along the top of the walls. As I observed her decorating I smiled as I thought, women are women, no matter if they live in mansions, ranch houses, or mud huts! After our mid-morning “tea” time, we walked back across the field for church. Many of the members were already seated on the narrow benches waiting to begin, women on one side, men on the other, children in the front, on the women’s side. We, as the guests of honor, took the chairs (with backs on them!) in the front of the room on the men’s side. While it felt a little uncomfortable to be sitting smack dab in front of all those strangers, here in Africa it is a sign of utmost respect to put the visitors at the front of the room.
The service began with a gust of singing. The songs were a capella, usually with a woman leading by singing a phrase and the rest of the congregation following. We clapped along with almost every song, which was good, since they were all in Swahili and we couldn’t sing along! After a bit of singing and an opening prayer, they had us introduce ourselves. We had come along with four church leaders, Johnston & Elizabeth Kapa, who are leaders in the Kitale area churches, and James and William, two pastors from the Mbale, Uganda area who have been studying at a Bible school here in Kitale for the last six weeks. After the introductions were made, we sang a few more songs before James brought the message to us. He spoke in English while Johnston translated into Swahili. James is a very good preacher, which is good, because the typical African sermon lasts at least an hour! He spoke on the subject of Micah 6:8: “He has shown thee, o man, what is good: but to do justice and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God.” The African style of preaching differs greatly from the American style. They expound on each aspect of the text so deeply, giving great historical background, reaching into other passages of scripture, as well as making each point relevant to the congregation’s current situation along the way. After each point is strongly made they state, “Buona oh safiwe,” which is echoed with a resounding “Amen!” from the congregation. (This means Praise God in Swahili.) About half way through the sermon, my backside started going numb, which I am starting to realize will be a normal feeling on Sundays from here on out. After the preaching, William got up and did a mini sermon on giving and tithing to the Lord. Everything important in Africa is repeated and illustrated in many different ways, to get the point across. For an American, this is difficult to get used to, as we are more familiar with the concept of saying it once and getting on with it so we can move on to the next thing. Time, over all, plays a much smaller role in the life of the African than that of the American. Church is the agenda for Sunday, and nothing else. (It’s a bit refreshing, actually!)
After the offering was taken, Greg was asked to get up and provide the talk for the communion. His “preaching” was a bit more brief than that of the two previous speakers, but I (and especially my backside) was very grateful. I wasn’t sure how much longer I could stand to sit on that hard chair in that hot room! After communion was passed and taken, Johnston and some of the local church leaders shared some encouraging words concerning the sermon and then Greg was asked again to approach the pulpit and share why we were here in Africa and what we will be doing over the next 2 years. The congregation was very grateful and pleased with our ministry and expressed that they would like to have us back to teach them about AIDS. So far we and our mission have received warm welcomes, which is very encouraging. After Greg shared, James ended the service with prayer and the service was over.
Many of the church members greeted us whole heartedly, shaking our hands and welcoming us whole-heartedly. As soon as I could, I dashed outside into the bright sunshine and light breeze and took a deep breath. Africa is so beautiful. The pastor of the church had a camera and before we knew it, Carrie and I were being pulled in every which direction by the women of the church wanted their picture taken with us. Greg and Kelly were virtually ignored, as us girls became their objects of affection. If you ever want to feel like a rock star, just come to Africa for a while and your desires will be fulfilled in no time!
When we were finally able to break loose from the haranguing mob, we were escorted back to the house we had taken cocoa in. One of the pastor’s daughter and another girl greeted us at the door with warm water and a basin to wash our hands with. We sat back down in the living room and a short time later, our meal was brought to us. Heaping bowls of white rice, beef with soup, sukuma weaky (cooked greens), ugali (the staple food of Kenya made out of corn meal), and chipati (flat bread) was spread before us. It was delicious! As we ate, we listened to the Kenyans talk with animation about the controversial elections that were to take place the next day. It was all in Swahili, so we had no idea what they were saying exactly, but we could catch a few choice words that clued us into their subject matter, at least. Not being able to partake in their conversation, either by hearing not by speaking, made me realize how central the ability to speak is to any society. I want so much to become fluent in their language; I feel lost without the ability to participate in conversation, even if it is just to hear and understand what is being said. After the meal was cleared, Christine brought us a plate of fresh cut avocados. Most of the produce in American cannot hold a candle to the fresh produce of East Africa. Oh la la! When we finally finished our glorious mid-afternoon meal, we graciously thanked the women who had prepared it for us and geared up to head home.
With every passing day in Africa (it has been 2 months already!) I feel more and more like this is a place where I could settle down for a while. There is something about this place and its people that are enticing and comfortable at the same time. There are many difficult aspects about life in Africa, which I will definitely expand on in another blog. Initially, however, I feel a great sense of fulfillment, enhanced by a sense of adventure and a huge amount of joy about being on this African road.

You Know You're a NEW Missionary When...

The team helped me come up with this fun list. I thought it would give you a humorous insight into what our lives are like over here. We finally have internet, so I should be posting more regularly! God Bless~ Alita

So, you know you're a new missionary when...

YOU GET WORSHIP SONGS STUCK IN YOUR HEAD BUT YOU DON’T KNOW THE WORDS BECAUSE THEY’RE IN A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE.

YOU HEAR A WEIRD ACCENT AND YOU REALIZE IT’S YOUR VOICE. (sorta like a cross between british/american/african.)

YOU HAVE TO ASK WHAT KIND OF MEAT YOU’RE EATING.

YOU START WASHING AND SAVING ALL YOUR ZIPLOC BAGS INDEFINITELY.

YOU LEARN HOW TO PUSH START A DIESEL.

YOUR ONLY SOCIAL OUTLET IS TEAM DEVOTIONS.

YOUR NEW IDEA OF A GOOD TIME IS PLAYING SCRABBLE BY CANDLELIGHT.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHTS…LIKE GETTING A PHONE INTSTALLED AT YOUR HOUSE.

YOU CARRY TOILET PAPER EVERYWHERE YOU GO.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A MINORITY.

HAVING A SALAD IS THE HIGHLIGHT OF YOUR WEEK.

YOU SUDDENLY DEVELOP A PHOBIA OF MOSQUITOS…FOR FEAR OF GETTING MALARIA.

YOU DISCOVER THE JOY OF READING BOOKS OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE YOU CAN’T FULFILL YOUR CRAVING FOR A DOUBLE TALL HAZELNUT SOY LATTE.

YOU ACTUALLY KEEP CANDLES IN YOUR HOUSE OUT OF NECCESITY (FOR WHEN THE POWER GOES OUT) NOT JUST BECAUSE THEY MAKE NICE DÉCOR.

YOU START TO DEVELOP A HABIT OF LOOKING FOR SNAKES EVERYTIME YOU TURN A CORNER.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE YOU KNOW WHAT A CELEBRITY FEEL LIKE BECAUSE EVERYWHERE YOU GO PEOPLE SMILE, WAVE AND YELL, “MZUNGU, HOW ARE YOU?!”

YOU START TO CONSIDER RENAMING YOURSELF “MZUNGU” FOR THE SAKE OF SIMPLICITY. (mzungu means, “white person”)

YOU REALIZE THAT PASSING ON TURNS AND HILLS REALLY ISN’T THAT BIG OF A DEAL!

YOU KEEP TRYING TO GET INTO THE LEFT SIDE OF THE CAR TO DRIVE SOMEWHERE, OR THE RIGHT SIDE TO BE A PASSENGER.

YOU KEEP REACHING WITH YOUR RIGHT HAND TO CHANGE GEARS.

YOUR NEW BEDTIME IS 9PM, AND YOU REALLY ARE TIRED ENOUGH TO GO TO SLEEP!

THE FIRST PHRASES YOU LEARN IN SWAHILI RANGE FROM “GOD BLESS YOU” (MUNGU AKUBARIKI) TO “GET OFF MY TRUCK!” (TOKA KWA LANI YANGU!)

YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO HAND WASH YOUR CLOTHES.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE, EVERYWHERE YOU GO PEOPLE ASK YOU FOR MONEY, INSTEAD OF YOU ASKING PEOPLE FOR MONEY!

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Journies in Kenya

The life of modern conveniences has passed. Gone are the days of fast food, Starbucks, automatic transmissions and constant access to the internet! If you have not traveled outside of the U.S., you do not know how incredible you have it. I have enough news to post on here everyday, and I’m sure all of you are sitting at home just waiting with anticipation whenever you log on to hear all the latest, hottest news from Africa. J Well, even if you’re not, I will do my best to tell you about the highlights that have happened since the last time I posted. We spent last week visiting our future home of Kitale, Kenya, which is absolutely beautiful! All four of us are looking forward to settling in to life in Kitale. It is 6200 feet above sea level, at the base of Mt. Elgon. The climate is much cooler than the “normal” African climate. We wore jackets every night by dinner time. Some of the highlights were: meeting the staff at the Kitale Church of Christ Children’s Home, staying at the Kitale Club (a nice resort-type hotel), and looking for houses. Out of the three compounds we looked at, one was a perfect fit. It has two houses, one w/2 bedrooms and one w/5 bedrooms. It is newer and much nicer (at least at first impression) than anything any of us would probably be able to afford back in the States, but the rent is affordable and we especially like the fact that there are 2 houses on one compound. This arrangement would work perfectly for us economically as well as security wise, so please pray that we are able to rent this place! There is one couple ahead of us who might take it, but they might not as well. We will find out later this week. Whether or not this option works, please pray that the Lord will provide a housing situation perfect for us. We also met a team of 6 people from College Heights Christian Church in Joplin, MO. They are in Kitale for 2 weeks making many repairs to the Children’s Home, for which we are very grateful. Please pray that they make it home safely this week. We also finally saw our “new” car, an ’84 Daihatsu 4x4, which we purchased from some now retired missionaries in Kisumu, Kenya. It is very loud, but it runs! We’re trying to find a good name for her; suggestions are welcome! J Other than all of this, our time was also filled by helping George & Dianna Franklin of SEE Ministries (www.seeministries.org) conduct eye glass clinics. Carrie & I also had several chances to get to know each other better while we hung out in our hotel room in the afternoons after work. As a team, however, we struggled a bit. We still feel as if we are vacationing as we haven’t begun our work, which has caused some tension, mainly between the boys and us girls. We met together and prayed which helped, but please pray for us that we will continue to come together as one, and that Satan wouldn’t use little annoyances to tear us apart. Over all, we had a very successful trip to Kitale. This week we have started our training at TASO, but I will leave that for another posting. Thanks so much for your love, support & prayers—know that your prayers for protection and blessing are being answered abundantly, so don’t stop! We don’t want to loose the momentum. All my love—alita

Sunday, October 02, 2005



Worship at the Mbale Church of Christ.


Shawn & Linda Tyler's house in Mbale, and our home for the next month.

Greetings from Africa!


Now that I am feeling better, I thought I should put up a post here before ya’ll thought I had disappeared for good! On top of jet lag, I have had a head cold and my malaria pills have been making me very dizzy since we arrived here on Wednesday morning (Tuesday night for most of you. The time difference here is 9 hours.) The last 5 days have gone well, in spite of my circumstances listed above. This country is beautiful, confusing & dirty—all at the same time! But there are familiarities weaved throughout life here too. I’ll break it down for you: Beautiful: The children, the trees, flowers & bushes, the mountains and hills. Confusing: ordering food at a restaurant, driving (even more scary than confusing!), the money (1800 schillings = $1). Dirty: ME! (*smile*), actually just about everything is dirty almost all the time. You don’t realize how clean the U.S. is until you’re not there anymore. Familiar: cell phones, electricity, running water and indoor toilets (YEAH!).
The missionaries we are staying with here in Mbale are from Texas; there is actually a whole team of them. So our Africa experience so far has been infiltrated with a bunch of “ya’ll” and good ol’ southern hospitality, which makes culture shock that much more interesting.
I wish I had more stories to tell, but we really haven’t been doing much yet. We’ve just been busy re-adjusting our sleeping habits and slowly venturing out into the world around us. This week we are crossing the border into Kenya, where we will visit our future home, Kitale. While we’re there we will be helping with See Ministries, another group here right now that conducts eye clinics and hands out free eye glasses in communities here in Eastern Uganda and Western Kenya for 1 month each year. We will also be working with a short term group from the states who will be in Kitale doing repair work at the children’s home that we are going to work with, and we are going to try to find a house to live in! We plan on moving to Kitale November 1st, after our training at TASO. That’s a lot earlier than I expected, but that’s how things go on the mission field! Well, that’s all for now. Hope you enjoy the pictures—and I’m sure I will have some great stories for you after our adventure in Kitale this week. Until then, God bless you! (they say that a lot here as a salutation)

Wednesday, September 21, 2005

phenomenon

For some strange reason, I am not feeling overwhelmed with the thought of my future in Africa. I have no idea why; if you know me you know that I am prone to overwhelming moments of drama in my life from time to time! Perhaps I have finally realized that there really is no point to freaking out whenever life throws you an unexpected curve. Perhaps so many people have been praying for me that my mind & heart have been fully covered with the peace that surpasses all understanding. Perhaps I am completely naive to reality right now and the moment I step off the plane in Africa I will have a panic attack! (Don't worry team, I'm pretty sure this won't happen! *smile*) Deep down inside what I really think is going on is that the older one gets, the more they learn about how to handle life. While it still may be difficult to understand situations, you learn to cope better with every year you live. Trust me, I know I'm still very young, so I don't claim at ALL to have this all figured out, but it's just a little phenomenon I've noticed in my own life so far.

Monday, September 12, 2005

an entry in my journal

I had an awesome quiet time last night, which is really hard to do when you're out of town visiting friends. But yesterday was a wonderful day, between church & spending time with my special friend, Jenn. Here's what I had to say at the end of the day:
"I am experiencing so many emotions right now-- its so difficult to really put into words what I feel. [but I attempted...] I feel excited, anxious, nervous, hopeful, inadequate, joyful, uneasy, curious, frustrated, amazed, confused-- pretty much a whole array of feelings! I feel so thankful & humbled at the same time for this awesome, incredible opportunity. I feel nervous about how everything is going to turn out. I can't believe that all of this is actually happening. It's so incredible that this huge of a dream is coming through, but it is because this is a dream that I allowed God to plant in my heart. I am still shocked to call myself a "missionary." That sounds so strange! But at the same time, I am totally stoked because this is the result of opening my heart and my life up to the Lord & saying, "Not my will, but yours be done." This is an incredibly scary step to take in the Christian walk, but when you can wake up in the morning and know that you are in the center of God's will for your life, that's an extremely great feeling! (despite all the fear of the unknown & whatnot.)" After I wrote this, I just sat & waited for the Lord to speak into my heart. I felt him saying that there is no reason to be afraid of the unknown in Africa. He said, "I am in Africa just as much as I am here with you now. There is no need to be afraid of the unknown in Africa. You'll be fine, because you know me."

Wednesday, August 31, 2005

You should buy stock in Kleenex

The pile of tissues stacked up on the living room floor as my mom & I sat and cried together for a good hour last night. It was the first time either one of us had really allowed our emotions to let go since my decision a few months ago to leave for 2 years. I expressed my sadness over missing out on family stuff for two years. She expressed her sadness over losing me and losing out on 2 years of my life. She said she felt like her right arm was being cut off...which, of course made me cry more.
I find it interesting that my deep love for family is actually driving me to leave my family for 2 years. It is for the sake of families on the other side of the world that I'm abandoning my own family--& it doesn't make a lot of sense. But I've been learning over the past few years that sometimes being a follower of Christ causes situations in our lives that don't make a lot of sense. Logic doesn't always fit into a life that strives to follow Jesus. If we knew everything & it all made sense, then I guess there'd be no God. In that case, I'm glad that not everything makes sense! I'm sure this is a good concept to keep in mind as I prepare to enter a world that won't make very much sense to me at all.
So please, continue to pray. For my family & me, but most of all for the families that need hope on the other side of the world. (and if you do buy stock in kleenex...you should use it to help others in need!!! :) )

Friday, August 26, 2005

30 days to go...

The countdown has officially begun! I can't believe that 30 days from this moment I will be in an airplane flying towards London and then on to Entebbe. This experience has been a whirlwind of emotions and experiences so far. I agree with my teammates...I never knew it took so much work to move to a different country for two years! And I stuggle with the thought of leaving my loved ones behind. This will be my first Christmas without my family. I am missing weddings of friends that I have known forever. It is easy for me to become fearful, leaving the comfortable and known for the uncomfortable and unknown. But, as 1 John reminds us, "perfect love casts out fear." God has been instilling this concept in my heart this week. It is incredible to have such an awesome relationship with such a loving Father!

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Team Tumai













So here's my team! L to R: Kelly, Carrie, me, & Greg. (In case you're wondering...."tumai" is the Swahili word for hope.) At 5'8", I'm the shortest one on the team. :)

Alita's Song

On a recent trip to Ashland, OR to see a Shakespeare show with my mom, we stayed with long time family friends, Mike & Diana Warner and their daughter Katie. Although we were only there for the weekend, Mike wrote a song for me about my going to Africa and sang it for me during their church service on Sunday morning. My mom & I sat there in tears the whole time! Here are the lyrics: (By the way, this could easily be titled "Kelly's Song," or "Carrie's Song, or "Greg's Song" as well.)

Alita's Song
by Mike Warner
Some people wander life aimless
Others seek riches and charms
Some people stay
In lands far away
So the lonely can lie in their arms
Which we become is a mystery
What is it that turns us around
Sometimes the wise
Sometimes the despised
Pour out their souls on the ground
And Jesus, He was a rambler
Never called any place home.
He wandered lands
And offered his hands
To the young and the sick and the old
Ours is a land blessed with plenty
Some say it's more than our share
And yet there are those
Whose willingness rose
To give away more than is fair.
And this is the path you have taken
No one can walk it but you.
A desperate chance
To share in a dance
That almost none of us knew.
And Jesus, He was a rambler
I sense that you will be too.
A delicate life
Against suffering and strife
Even after you've costed it through
I don't believe in nations
But I believe in you
To stand in the road
Shoulder the load
And change the world when you do
And change the world when you do
I wish we all could be ramblers
But only some of us do.
Lay down the money
The milk and the honey
Trade a cause for the life that we knew
And if that's the life you are choosing
You know that there's no turning cold
For once you have tasted
The life that ain't wasted
It runs like a drug through your soul.
And Jesus, he was a rambler
And you crave the life that He owns.
Once you're a rambler
An idealist gambler
You'll feel the call in your bones.
You'll live your life as a rambler
You will call every place home
You'll wander the lands
And offer your hands
To the young and the sick and the old
To the young and the sick and the old
To the young and the sick and the old
Copyright 2005 Mike Warner.
Cool song, huh?! Thanks, Mike! It really means a lot to me. :)

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

Signs...

So I mentioned that I have received several "signs" that the work we are about to do is what God wants us to do. The first thing that happened was my pastor was given the unexpected opportunity to go to Africa to visit the work that Christian Relief Fund does in Uganda & Kenya. This gave him the chance to talk with missionaries to see what needs to be done. The day after he returned, we spoke with him at church about what he found out. The missionaries currently in Uganda were overjoyed to here that there were some people who wanted to come over and help. The moment I learned that, I knew that God had swung the door that I had been praying about wide open. I drove home from church that night on clouds---I was elated to think that this dream could be becoming a reality. What's even wierder is what happened the next day, however. One of my profs approached me during lunch hour and told me he had been thinking about me and praying about me over the weekend and felt that he needed to tell me something. He said that he felt that God wanted me to know that I would find my life fulfillment in Kenya! The crazy thing is, my prof had no idea that just the night before I had been chatting with my pastor about that exact possibility! I just have to tell you...God is good! And then there's the issue about student loans. This year my college offered, for the first time, a grant that will pay a graduate's student loans for the entire time he or she is on the mission field. Greg, one of my teammates & I, who happened to be graduating this year AND going to the mission field both received the scholarship. Coincidence? I think not! God has been opening doors left & right since we received the initial opportunity in March. He is Good...

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

Why Africa?


Almost three years ago I sat in church listening to our pastor talk about the pandemic that was sweeping through the continent of Africa. Nation by nation was being (and still is) destroyed by AIDS. People my age were dying by the minute. Mothers, fathers, children, most of whom were innocent, loosing everything. As a social science major, looking at a future in Family Counseling, I was deeply moved that there were literally millions of children who had no parents due to this deadly pandemic. Surely there was a way to help. But could I possibly be one who would be called upon to bring hope & healing to such a dire situation? As I continued to hear about what has been called the worst pandemic in the history of the world, I also continued to pray & seek God's direction in my life. I knew that a decision to go to Africa was not one to be made lightly. My faith told me to seek earnestly the path for my life. I considered all of my options: Graduate school, moving back to my hometown, getting a job & enjoying not being a student for a while; moving to Texas to seek another ministry opportunity....or AFRICA. The more I prayed, the more my heart was pulled to Africa. (I mean, look at the faces of these children!) I also received many "signs" or confirmations that I should go, which I plan to talk about here as well. It is my hope that this story will be yet another story of God's faithfulness--the faithfulness of a loving Father who continues to be faithful in spite of the worst that the world has to offer.

Monday, August 08, 2005

Here goes...


As I prepare to leave for Africa next month, I thought it would be a good idea to create a site where my friends & family could check in on me from time to time. So here's my new blog! I am so excited to share with you in my adventure serving the Lord in Africa. Please feel free to post comments or email me whenever your heart desires. Especially after September 26th, our departure date. I want to stay in touch with home as much as possible over the next 2 years.